Do your parents try to stop you from having a bf/gf?

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star_princess | 3 Nov 2006 - 11:32pm

does your parents try to stop you from having a boyfriend or girlfriend? what's their excuse that you shouldn't? Laughing doesn't it lyke piss you off? Razz if that happens to you, what do you do about it?

also, if you have a relationship, do you keep it secret from them?

and ever noticed it's always the dad that tries to stop girls from having bf's and the mom that tries to stop boys from having gf's? Laughing

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femaleBad Kitteh | 3 November 2006 - 11:33pm

nope, but they might intervene if I was your age...depending on the seriousness of the relationship.


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superkrazyguy06 (not verified) | 3 November 2006 - 11:34pm

If I had a gf i'd tell my parents and close friends and no else. No one else needs to know. Well I'd say considering how sexual things are today, best for any girl not to date til 15. That way she can have a license and can drive away in case a guy gets too touchy. I guess it's just the way parents are.

malejust_ikke | 4 November 2006 - 12:00am

they would never have stopped me from having a girlfriend though i am not sure about that since i never had any girlfried


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femaledanegirl | 4 November 2006 - 12:00am

Well I think at the moment my mum doesnt want me to have my bf but my father is fine with it. I just dont know what my mums issue is. She just really really doesnt wnat me having one but then again I have told her about my relationship and Im not ending it because of her. Its not worth it. I just guess she has to put up with it.

blackgeekette (not verified) | 4 November 2006 - 1:49am

See some parents don't want you to have a bf or a gf say at like 15 because they know you are just starting out and that you should just date and get to know people before settling for one person,but in most cases at 15 we wanna do everything ourselves so we just have to learn on our own and like me I learnt as I got to 16 and 17 why my Mom used to say just date because now after getting to know people and stuff,I finally found the right person for me and I am ready to settle.But I mean some people do find the right person at 15 but sometimes it doesn't last because you have been dating that person for a long time and you don't get that chance to explore during the teen years.

femaleshashera | 4 November 2006 - 2:11am

i'm 18 and my father would flip if he knew i had a boyfriend. i don't know what mommy would do' aunty just wants to know i'm not doing anything i should not be doing. my stepmother is cool with it.

femalestar_princess | 4 November 2006 - 5:19am

i don't have a bf but it would be nice if i did again Smile my parents wouldn't stop me but they'll tell me to be wise and not do things i shouldn't do yet. but they trust me. i trust them too so i wouldn't have to keep having a bf a secret.

when i used to have a bf, my parents totally loved him Smile but he's gone now. i haven't seen him in a long time.


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femaleecstasy123 | 4 November 2006 - 9:03am

My mum actually thinks its high time i got a boyfriend. I dunno what my dad would have said if he was around.


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femaleaegh | 4 November 2006 - 11:47am

no my parents let me


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miss_murder (not verified) | 4 November 2006 - 12:01pm

My parents don't really know about my boyfriend. call me paranoid but every time i tell my parents about my boyfriends i break up soon after i told.

femalestar_princess | 4 November 2006 - 12:01pm

anywayz even if they didn't approve, i would still have 1 Razz but at the moment i don't have 1 Laughing


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femalestar_princess | 4 November 2006 - 12:02pm

awwww. do they say something that kinda forces you to break up or something?

miss_murder wrote:
My parents don't really know about my boyfriend. call me paranoid but every time i tell my parents about my boyfriends i break up soon after i told.


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miss_murder (not verified) | 5 November 2006 - 11:43am

ofcorse not.
But if my parents like him - I dump him Laughing
i don't really know why. Laughing

femalestar_princess | 5 November 2006 - 12:27pm

oh you dump him if your parents like them Laughing someone told me about that once, it's like if your parents like the guy it's bad cuz that means that the guy might hav no style Laughing


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female_lifedeath_ | 9 December 2006 - 5:39pm

no,the opposite Razz my mom reeeaally wants me to find a b/f Laughing that's partly because i've never had one..


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femaleouti | 10 December 2006 - 8:11pm

Not really and they couldn't do that anyway. I haven't told them about my current boyfriend tho because I just don't see why I should do that yet.

The one who is usually more worried about me dating guys is my mom, definitely.


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malejust_ikke | 11 December 2006 - 5:41pm

they never had to stop me Laughing Because i have never had a girlfriend Laughing


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female_skiso_ | 13 December 2006 - 7:26pm

they dont care Very happy


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femalewicked_beauty | 25 December 2006 - 9:53am

Actually no, my mom's cool with it.
But then again she trusts me. She doesn't trust my older sister because she left when she was fifteen for a guy that was I think 26 and she's still having an on and off relationship with him. She's cheated on him more than once and I have a niece and a nephew neither from him. But I don't live with my dad but everytime that I talk to him he would ask me if I have a boyfriend. As long as my boyfriend is a good guy then he's fine with it. I think my brother would be more protective then any of them but he doesn't live with me either so it's not like he could do anything anyway.


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femaleSweet_Tiramisu_Cakes | 11 January 2007 - 5:43pm

my parents kinda let me have a bf. but my gradmother hates it. she thinks im gonna become a whore ahahah! whatever!


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maleRaGe_Of_MaSk | 15 January 2007 - 6:00pm

my mum has worried about me to have a gf.cause she thinks if i have a gf i cant study my lessons :Dbut if i have one i keep it secret from them cause i know they will be angry with me and i dont want that.


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femalestar_princess | 16 January 2007 - 12:17am

it's normal to have a bf / gf. if you think that's the best way to keep things ok with the parents, then sounds good to me.

for me though i hate having to hide stuff like that, if i had a bf, my parents would know about it Laughing


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femalesexy_love01 | 16 January 2007 - 11:16pm

yea. they say i should focus on school. Well that just tols me i couldnt have one.. yea.. it does kinda piss me off. but i never say anything to em about it. Yep. Of course if i have a relationship i keep it VERY secret.. lol. well both my parents are against me having a relationship until I'm totally out of school. Very happy


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femalestar_princess | 17 January 2007 - 12:55am

one can focus on school and have a bf at the same time Very happy i know i did Laughing and so do lots of people. but of course some ppl can't do that.


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femalenumero139 | 26 April 2007 - 11:00am

nope and I think I dont want to have one (only at the moment lol)


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maleHR1991 | 28 April 2007 - 4:51am

well princess, my mum doesn't even know.............i hope or a least i don't think they know that i have gf hmm i must try find out that might backfire though well i always sneak into gf house my times as well so her parents don't know either its all top secret... here's what i think would happen to me if my and her parents knew....... in similies Bussi Shocked Trouble Bashing Crying Exploding


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femaleburningangel | 30 April 2007 - 11:50pm

They never tried to stop me from having one so I didn't keep it secret from them. I guess they wouldn't dare to stop me Razz

femalePoroneiti | 1 May 2007 - 3:51pm

No, they don't. I have pretty much the ideal situation: my parents like my boyfriend (especially my mum... She used to teach him for 3 years and he was one of her favourite pupils!) and his parents like me. In fact, I spent last night in his bed even though we've been together only about 3 weeks. Mum and dad were totally ok with that.

If they tried to make me stop dating him, it just wouldn't work. They don't have the right to do it. We're both over 18, we both have cars... There's pretty much nothing they could do to stop us seeing each other. I'm glad they don't even try Laughing


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femaleits_kim | 8 May 2007 - 1:49am

They always do. It doesn't piss me off though, I totally understand why sometimes they intervene. However, there are times that I keep information from them IF they really don't like the guy. Very happy

And yes, I agree with that. It's my dad who keeps telling me not to have one yet - although my mom often backs him up.


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femaledrucy | 11 July 2007 - 10:27am

yes, my mom DOES try to stop me from having a bf! she says i'm tooo YOUNG! but that's stupid , you know! i mean i'm alredy a teen. i don''t know why she don't let me do anything MYWAY!Mad