Do your parents try to stop you from having a bf/gf?
does your parents try to stop you from having a boyfriend or girlfriend? what's their excuse that you shouldn't?
doesn't it lyke piss you off?
if that happens to you, what do you do about it?
also, if you have a relationship, do you keep it secret from them?
and ever noticed it's always the dad that tries to stop girls from having bf's and the mom that tries to stop boys from having gf's? ![]()
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If I had a gf i'd tell my parents and close friends and no else. No one else needs to know. Well I'd say considering how sexual things are today, best for any girl not to date til 15. That way she can have a license and can drive away in case a guy gets too touchy. I guess it's just the way parents are.
they would never have stopped me from having a girlfriend though i am not sure about that since i never had any girlfried
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Well I think at the moment my mum doesnt want me to have my bf but my father is fine with it. I just dont know what my mums issue is. She just really really doesnt wnat me having one but then again I have told her about my relationship and Im not ending it because of her. Its not worth it. I just guess she has to put up with it.
See some parents don't want you to have a bf or a gf say at like 15 because they know you are just starting out and that you should just date and get to know people before settling for one person,but in most cases at 15 we wanna do everything ourselves so we just have to learn on our own and like me I learnt as I got to 16 and 17 why my Mom used to say just date because now after getting to know people and stuff,I finally found the right person for me and I am ready to settle.But I mean some people do find the right person at 15 but sometimes it doesn't last because you have been dating that person for a long time and you don't get that chance to explore during the teen years.
i'm 18 and my father would flip if he knew i had a boyfriend. i don't know what mommy would do' aunty just wants to know i'm not doing anything i should not be doing. my stepmother is cool with it.
i don't have a bf but it would be nice if i did again
my parents wouldn't stop me but they'll tell me to be wise and not do things i shouldn't do yet. but they trust me. i trust them too so i wouldn't have to keep having a bf a secret.
when i used to have a bf, my parents totally loved him
but he's gone now. i haven't seen him in a long time.
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My mum actually thinks its high time i got a boyfriend. I dunno what my dad would have said if he was around.
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no my parents let me
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My parents don't really know about my boyfriend. call me paranoid but every time i tell my parents about my boyfriends i break up soon after i told.
anywayz even if they didn't approve, i would still have 1
but at the moment i don't have 1 ![]()
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awwww. do they say something that kinda forces you to break up or something?
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ofcorse not.
But if my parents like him - I dump him ![]()
i don't really know why. ![]()
oh you dump him if your parents like them
someone told me about that once, it's like if your parents like the guy it's bad cuz that means that the guy might hav no style ![]()
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no,the opposite
my mom reeeaally wants me to find a b/f
that's partly because i've never had one..
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Not really and they couldn't do that anyway. I haven't told them about my current boyfriend tho because I just don't see why I should do that yet.
The one who is usually more worried about me dating guys is my mom, definitely.
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they never had to stop me
Because i have never had a girlfriend ![]()
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they dont care ![]()
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Actually no, my mom's cool with it.
But then again she trusts me. She doesn't trust my older sister because she left when she was fifteen for a guy that was I think 26 and she's still having an on and off relationship with him. She's cheated on him more than once and I have a niece and a nephew neither from him. But I don't live with my dad but everytime that I talk to him he would ask me if I have a boyfriend. As long as my boyfriend is a good guy then he's fine with it. I think my brother would be more protective then any of them but he doesn't live with me either so it's not like he could do anything anyway.
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my parents kinda let me have a bf. but my gradmother hates it. she thinks im gonna become a whore ahahah! whatever!
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my mum has worried about me to have a gf.cause she thinks if i have a gf i cant study my lessons :Dbut if i have one i keep it secret from them cause i know they will be angry with me and i dont want that.
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it's normal to have a bf / gf. if you think that's the best way to keep things ok with the parents, then sounds good to me.
for me though i hate having to hide stuff like that, if i had a bf, my parents would know about it ![]()
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yea. they say i should focus on school. Well that just tols me i couldnt have one.. yea.. it does kinda piss me off. but i never say anything to em about it. Yep. Of course if i have a relationship i keep it VERY secret.. lol. well both my parents are against me having a relationship until I'm totally out of school. ![]()
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one can focus on school and have a bf at the same time
i know i did
and so do lots of people. but of course some ppl can't do that.
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nope and I think I dont want to have one (only at the moment lol)
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well princess, my mum doesn't even know.............i hope or a least i don't think they know that i have gf hmm i must try find out that might backfire though well i always sneak into gf house my times as well so her parents don't know either its all top secret... here's what i think would happen to me if my and her parents knew....... in similies
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They never tried to stop me from having one so I didn't keep it secret from them. I guess they wouldn't dare to stop me ![]()
No, they don't. I have pretty much the ideal situation: my parents like my boyfriend (especially my mum... She used to teach him for 3 years and he was one of her favourite pupils!) and his parents like me. In fact, I spent last night in his bed even though we've been together only about 3 weeks. Mum and dad were totally ok with that.
If they tried to make me stop dating him, it just wouldn't work. They don't have the right to do it. We're both over 18, we both have cars... There's pretty much nothing they could do to stop us seeing each other. I'm glad they don't even try ![]()
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They always do. It doesn't piss me off though, I totally understand why sometimes they intervene. However, there are times that I keep information from them IF they really don't like the guy. ![]()
And yes, I agree with that. It's my dad who keeps telling me not to have one yet - although my mom often backs him up.
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yes, my mom DOES try to stop me from having a bf! she says i'm tooo YOUNG! but that's stupid , you know! i mean i'm alredy a teen. i don''t know why she don't let me do anything MYWAY!![]()


















nope, but they might intervene if I was your age...depending on the seriousness of the relationship.
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