I'm really scared by him----

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tofeel | 5 Sep 2006 - 3:53am
Hi, my friends!
I want to tell you a terrible thing that scares me today.

Two hours ago someone send message to me in "Mailfriend.com".
He told me his MSN and then I began to chat with him on MSN.
I'm happy to have another friend.
However, he didn't wear anything and showed me his muscle.
Then he asked me whether I liked to watch.
I'm a Chinese girl with traditional thinking, so I stopped the chat.
I won't chat with him any more.
I'm really scared by him.

I just want to find pure friendship in "Mailfriend.com".
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femaleskrecok | 5 September 2006 - 5:02am
Sadly, creeps like that occasionally find their way on to MF.

Report his profile, if he has harassed you. John may delete it.

Most people here are cool, you just have to watch out for the occasional perv.



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femaleskrecok | 5 September 2006 - 5:03am
P.S. Don't chat anyone from here on MF unless you know them well. Pervs almost always ask to chat on MSN before they even know your name.


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femaleskrecok | 5 September 2006 - 5:04am
I mean don't chat with anyone from MF on MSN unless you know them well. Ignore those guys who message you out of the blue with "u have msn?" or that kinda crap...they're always pervs.



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maletexas | 5 September 2006 - 5:06am
Put him on your ignore list so that he can't send you any more messages...and take him off your MSN contact list.

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femalemocpt | 5 September 2006 - 6:04am
Delete the idiot from your list. Sadly these jerks get a kick out of doing this sort thing. Be careful you give your MSN addy to girl.I never use my webcam when I am online unless I chat with family or real friends and very rarely accept the invite to chat with strangers as this happened to me once or twice too.So I've learnt from that silly mistake and so should you.



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femaleserenity_1 | 5 September 2006 - 6:26am
I would suggest that u don't give out your MSN until you know someone very well and trust them ... some guys jus feel the need to show it all off regardless of whether people wanna see it or not - makes me sick that they seem to get some kinda kick outta it ... i would also put him on ya ignore list

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femaletofeel | 5 September 2006 - 7:15am
Thank you for all of your advice.
I will delete him from my MSN list and ignore him in "mailfriend.com".

There are so many kind people in "mailfriend.com", like you, my friends!

I'm really appreciated of your comments!
femalekimmy16 | 5 September 2006 - 7:47am
It happened to me too in the beginning of my MF time here. No big deal though. Block, delete, report on MF and he's gone! Besides if you keep in mind that he's just another stupid brainless perv then they're actually more to laugh at than to be scared for

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femaledimanad | 5 September 2006 - 8:09am
yeah, just delete and ignore him and dont use your web camera while chatting . and dont give your msn id, i never give to to people that i dont know, not only from the MF sites but from other websites as well...
angelicdarkness (not verified) | 5 September 2006 - 10:02am
I would suggest don't chat with anyone else, especially if they are older.
Just PM people, and if they get out of hand, put them on your ignore list.
malejohnf | 5 September 2006 - 10:12am
Report him to MSN

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femaledyingjuliet | 5 September 2006 - 11:09am
I am sorry for you. These sickos will probably be to be found online forever

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femaleeccentrick | 5 September 2006 - 9:17pm
don't give your msn when someone asks for it! Get to know them first, on this site. Then if you feel comfortable, you can always exchange your msn addresses. Block him on your msn list, ignore hin here (the button at the right side under his pm's) and do as Skrecok said, report him.
femaleeccentrick | 5 September 2006 - 9:19pm
Oh, and don't call anyone your friend after knowing them for five minutes. A friend is someone you know, trust and like.
femalenicky_v | 7 September 2006 - 11:31am
dont give ur MSN to stranger give it when u able to trust the person already ...

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malefireball | 7 September 2006 - 11:16pm
When I read that... Awful... Never happened to read such a story. Now I know why people react so aggressive if you ask for the MSN-address and I was confused (I really like to chat with cam, too --> creating an atmosphere of a real conversation) when I asked some girls and they reacted in the way I already said... Became a wrong perv in their eyes, cool... Now I have learned... Good for the next time. I will ask muuuuuuuuuuuch later in the future.
femalestar_princess | 8 September 2006 - 12:23am
if you still have his username, you can report him to johnf. and like lots of people said, never give msn to someone you don't know.

it happens all the time. guys that do that have no life and have nothing else better to do there's always better and NORMAL people to talk to


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femaleSweetClaudia | 17 November 2007 - 1:11pm

sometimes good manners are a way to show people that we respect them..
I'm sorry for your bad experience..

malemaranello | 18 November 2007 - 10:19pm

I am very sorry to hear about that tofeel. Believe me when I say this that this kind of "human" waste that ruined your experience her on Mailfriends does not speak for the rest of humanity. There are many decent, genuine people on here, unfortunately it's the pervs that make the loudest noise. Sad Without naming names you will usually find they are from a small number of countries on here.

maleHalse | 21 November 2007 - 7:08am

Gee, that's not nice Razz
WEll, that experience sure is so unpredictable. Badluck for you-thousands people are in here n you got the worst one. But i'm sure now you have learned something. Just forget that incident, forget that person. And please, don't let this make you have a negative thinking about this site. I mean, hey, that person is just a tiny little part of mf- you'll find lots better person in this site Very happy who'll give u a pure friendship n cheers you everytime.
( I admit i'm surprised about this story- Never expect that such thing would happen in here)
Hope you're better now, Rose. It's been 2 weeks i guess Razz
I'm sure you have found better person by now, who'll make up your day !

maleguidonl85 | 21 November 2007 - 10:19am

Actually this IS an excellent idea for the "I wanna make my gf scream" topic!


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femaleffyona | 12 December 2007 - 9:13pm

Internet flasher. Freak!

Take the advice, BLOCK!!


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femalefurballs | 24 December 2007 - 10:34am

you do get the odd weirdo like that, i get guys like that asking for my msn as well, best to just tell them you don't have msn and if they can't accept that then tell them to go away

femalestallegtite | 22 January 2008 - 3:04pm

He shouldn't have done that. It was bad of him. Don't have any more to do with him. Block him and stay away from him.

malePrimero | 26 January 2008 - 11:22am

I can't understand thy problem. An if my female mailfriend show me her nude pic i 'd not be scared, haha, noway. I suppose that guy is european, so take it easy...be sure he didn't want to frighten you... And generally he's too far to fear him..


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femalebluma | 26 January 2008 - 6:21pm

This was written in 2006! I think this particular person is long gone off to show his muscle to others.


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maleaguila | 28 January 2008 - 9:54pm

bluma wrote:

This was written in 2006! I think this particular person is long gone off to show his muscle to others.


Yeah, but for him probably ten others. I think this topic will be up to date forever.


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