Teenage problems...

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nine_inch_crow | 17 Oct 2006 - 5:06pm
Remember the time when you were a teenager (or you still are). What was the biggest issues for you to handle? Was it boys, parents, pimples etc?

Well, mine was my mum. I don't envy the time my mother had to go through while raising when I was 13. I used to slam the doors, argue alot, piss my parents off and was a typical know-it-all brat.
I'm all cute and good now hehe

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femalekinezumi | 17 October 2006 - 5:21pm
I don't really have big problems...

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malefirewalkwithme | 17 October 2006 - 5:29pm
oh yes,my parents..they had to worry & suffer a lot.no details,please!
btw: there is a new teen-channel here,so lets have a look about todays' teenager-problems.lol
malefirewalkwithme | 17 October 2006 - 5:31pm
ohoh,we're in that channel haha..
malejust_ikke | 17 October 2006 - 5:36pm
i think i had the biggest problems with my parents just before becoming a teenager ... at the age of 9 i was rather violent ... this period didn't took that long of my life after a few months i was back the normal Yannick after that not really have problems with parents ... i do have a lot of problems with my sis though
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malepolander | 17 October 2006 - 5:49pm
When I was a teenager, say between 15 and 18, my Parents were about the two dumbest people on earth. Then I don't know what happened. They must have gone to night school or something because the older I got the smarter they became. As I got older and encountered various problems, I could suddenly hear their voices talking about such things......now, how the hell could they have known?
miss_murder (not verified) | 17 October 2006 - 5:53pm
Too many problems to name all of them
I'm one of those rebellious depressed kids lol.
femaleeilana | 17 October 2006 - 6:00pm
No problems actually. I had one or two unhappy crushes, but except that a happy teenager time
femalegusia | 17 October 2006 - 6:06pm
My sis says that I was a monster for her (she`s 2 years older), you know I was just the-younger-dumb-sister-always-there-to-piss-her-off. But I don`t think that I was a prob for my parents, sometimes for teacher tough...but about that shushhhh
femalejessie01_04 | 17 October 2006 - 6:07pm
My biggest problem were my parents.

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femaletessel | 17 October 2006 - 6:47pm
Hmm, I didn't really have problems. Unless it would be that I hadn't enough time to do all the things I wanted AND should do. But it's still the same case now. Haha, it is only 1 year in school that I was in 'high school' and now I'm at the university.
femalesara_2003 | 17 October 2006 - 7:07pm
Well even though I am a legal adult being 18 and all but there is still "teen" in there so really I don't have any problems being a teen at the moment...but when I was 13-17 I wanted so desperately to be older because everyone I was around was older and of course being a bratty teen I thought my parents let my older sister do whatever she wanted while I had rules and regulations about everything. Everyone has there ups and downs but I've never said "Ohhh I'm so depressed and ohhhh I wish I'd die" just because I wasn't getting my away. But anyway I was a pretty spoiled brat and probably still am, but I'm getting better! Haha!

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femaleelvenwizard | 17 October 2006 - 7:14pm
problems ? WHAT problems ?!

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angelicdarkness (not verified) | 17 October 2006 - 7:27pm
Mine was boys, thinking I knew it all, and rebelling like heck...I put a lot of grey hairs
on people LOL!!! I absolutely don't look forward to my daughter getting older...they will
probably have to put me away LOL!!!
femaledyingjuliet | 17 October 2006 - 7:58pm
My biggest problem was not being taken seriously. I hated it so much. Oh, and I couldn't deal with the chronic mess of my hair

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femalestar_princess | 17 October 2006 - 9:38pm
adults cuz most of the time they always seem to be like totally clueless and don't know anything and don't understand anything. that's the problem i have


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darkearth (not verified) | 17 October 2006 - 10:10pm
My biggest issue was being bullied at school.
femaleprincesssparkle | 17 October 2006 - 11:12pm
Mine was boys and school I guess. Thats what used to come into my mind a lot. boys and friends were most important to me, and going to the cool parties
femalestar_princess | 18 October 2006 - 1:00am
you know what, the one with the adults is actually the number 1 problem for me, there's more

1. adults - they don't understand anything most of the time and they're clueless about most things. they think most 12 yr olds still play with dolls.

2. peer pressure - some ppl think it's cool to smoke or drink and try to get you to do it and some boys that are like way too horny want to have sex with you.

3. so called popular people - they want you to be like them, dress like them, talk like them, listen to their music and whatever, and if you don't, they're gonna try to make your life miserable.

4. nagging parents - i know they mean well and everything but my parents sometimes say things over and over again until my ears explode. sheesh man i heard you the 1st time.

5. boys that don't get it - some boys just don't know that just cuz a girl flirts with them doesn't mean she wants to do something with them.


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femaleprincesssparkle | 18 October 2006 - 2:41am
@star princess

Adults DO have a clue what it is like to be 12, we have all been there and some 12 yr olds play with dolls some dont, everyone matures at different ages. I was drinking and smoking at 12, something i am not proud of i wish i had of been playing with dolls at 12. Would have made life a hell of a lot easier, everyone is in too much of a hurry to grow up.

As for nagging parents yeah yeah I know it can be annoying, but hang on to them. I went crazy at 12 and ran away leaving my mum heartbroken i wish i had never done it, but i thought i was so good and she was the enemy, in actual fact she was the only one on my side. So think about that next time you go off on them for loving you and caring about you.
femaledanegirl | 18 October 2006 - 12:10pm
Hmmm well at the moment, With me being a teen and all... I think that my biggest problems are like my parents, Rules and curfews, people not taking me seriously, my parents not trusting me and my boyfriend, friends giving me a whole heap of crap and alot of other things.
It just really annoys me with my parents and other adults not taking me seriously, not trusting me and all that.
It really gives me the craps.

Friends and all on the other hand are like driving me insane and all that. I wished that it would be all easy being a teen and I wished that everyone would trust me and my bf and I wished that I didnt have rules or curfues. Its just so stupid and all being a teen with all these issues to face and to like to stop me from being a teen. It all sucks but oh well I will get through it. Even if I have to be rebellious and depressed and jumping from moods, I will do it but I will get through this part of life.
femaleloveisblind | 18 October 2006 - 2:12pm
maybe just how to balance friends.....

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femaleecstasy123 | 19 October 2006 - 12:07pm
hmm...first - my school and the misunderstandings there.
Then comes my mum. She thinks its rude when i shout at my bro for smt he did wrong...she thinks it not good to use the phone too much...i get phone calls and she hates it. there are so many probs i have wid her that i cant list.
my granny comes next. she thinks it bad to be talk or be close friends with boys...
then comes everything else related to being a girl.

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femaleecstasy123 | 19 October 2006 - 12:16pm
some other problems:

Peer pressure : friends tell me its high time i got myself a new boyfriend. they tell me that i dont look as good as them. they tell me that i should try smoking (i dont wanna)...they tell me that i shouldnt flirt atall when they do it double as much as me.

Enemies: at school there are a few POPULAR people, with boyfriends who think they are the most beautiful, successful ppl on earth (they arent). they think that like most other people i should become smtn like they're slaves...but sorry GO TO HELL. since i wont agree to their stupid conditions they create the worst situations for me.

Teachers : they think teens are too young for having crushes etc. they state it as FORBIDDEN...i mean wtf. i had my first crush when i was in 2nd std.


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femaleFan | 19 October 2006 - 4:36pm
boys, omg boys
femalebob_is_a_saint | 19 October 2006 - 8:20pm
Family, mainly

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femalestar_princess | 23 October 2006 - 11:04am
oh ya here's another one from some of my friends. well actually most of my friends say it their parents still try to treat them like little kids we don't like being patted on the head or whatever and stuff like that or being talked down to. we're not 6 yr olds


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malepolander | 24 October 2006 - 4:16am
You never grow up in your parents' eyes. You will always be reminded to make sure you have a scarf, or glove, to eat your dinner, to get plenty of sleep.....etc. The first time my Father acknowledged that I was an adult is when I was going through my first divorce at age 35....now I had adult problems.
femalecinderella17 | 24 October 2006 - 3:33pm
i just remember this one that i always had a feeling that everybody hates me and is against me whatever i do! in that time i thought it's a huge problem but now i can only laugh about it!
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femaleaegh | 28 October 2006 - 8:36pm

dont have any big issues lol!! im okay!! Very happy


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malefunkmastap | 2 November 2006 - 9:03pm

Getting a girl friend is currently my biggest problem for fuck sake but I'm too shy to ask someone out Sad

Uum, the second thing is handling my anger problems, I could sometimes get a bit over emotional over some small things, e.g. art, if I don't draw well or table tennis (which is a very big thing!!) if I don't play well. Could end up punching the table, screaming out loud or kicking the wall. I do it so much, people don't even seem to pay attention anymore lol


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