Female Trouble :(
It has not been a good week for me.I have some female problem.This shit all started on Monday one of my friends said something to tease my friend and of course I joned in and laughed at what he said.She said that she wasn't going to talk to me anymore and she gave me the silent treatment all week.That day she got mad at me I text her who knows how many times to appologise I even left her a voice mail. The next day still nothing but I guess she told some of my friends that she is going to talk to me still but she needs to cool off because I made her mad.And another thing I'm hearing a different side of the story and from what I'm hearing she thinks I'm mad at her because this past Saturday we all hung out and shot pool at the bowling ally.And so she was outside talking to one of her friends on her phone she was going to leave because her friend hasn't seen her in a week and she wanted to see my friend.She didn't end up going after all.I want to find out what the I did to deserve her getting mad at me so the next time it won't happen again.And my ex called me last night and told me my friend who's mad at me thought I was a bully well I guess I deserve being called that because I'm always teasing her and making fun of her.But I do that out of love not because I want to be mean.Whenever she's ready cooled off and ready to talk to me again I'm going to tell her there's going to be some changes between us first of all if something bothers her about me to straight out tell me and to not be afraid to hurt my feelings.And another thing that I'm going to tell her that the "Old Dominic" is out which means from now on I'm not going to tease her anymore I'm going to be much more nicer to her and all the childish things I've done in the past I won't do anymore.I'm willing to change for my friend because her friendship means a lot to me and I don't want to loose her as a friend again.Now when I think about all the good times we've had in the past I start crying.Whatever I did I really f**cked everything up and I'm really ashamed of it what should I do? 
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I did my level best to read this carefully, but it was a bit difficult because it all is squished together. Next time could you break it up a bit with some space? 
Anyway. Quote: "[M]y friend who's mad at me thought I was a bully well I guess I deserve being called that because I'm always teasing her and making fun of her.But I do that out of love not because I want to be mean."
This to me seems like the key part of all this. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt because I really have no reason not to. However, whatever your intention, how she feels about what you say is most crucial, and that is what you need to be paying more attention to. Think about past similar encounters: has she ever told you before she doesn't like being teased the way you do? And how have you responded? Being honest with yourself, consider whether you put more value and effort into how you meant it v. how it maybe made her feel. If it is consistantly the former, this may play a large role in why she won't reply to you now.
In other words, if someone frequently ignored me when I said, "Please stop saying/doing that, I don't like it," I likely would walk away as well. Who needs to surround themselves with people who bring them down?
At this point, you may just need to realise the ball is in her court--paging her and constantly texting her will not solve it, and may possibly irritate her. And when you do touch base with her and discuss the situation, you may want to agree with each other that fragments of what people said going back and forth is not helpful at all--people need to discuss things directly with *each other*.
Good luck.
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Um, appologise for being childish and grow up.
Teasing is insincere and insulting if done in copious quantity.
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You have thought of a great solution so far . But if you ask me I wouldn't try and change yourself completely because then your not being true to yourself. But instead try and do nice little sweet thins just to her to show her how much you appreciate her as a friend. Tell her that you tease her out of love and never in the world want to hurt her again. Let her know how much she means to you. If she doesn't talk to you for a while longer then set up a meeting or a picnic or something sweet so then she has to see you and explain to her all the things I have advised you to tell. Sh will forgive you because when you said you look back on all the good time I think she will be thinking about them too and will want to have more of those great memories and is willing to forgive. Goodluck and if there are any more problems come to me
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i thought you said she was your friend. how can you call yourselves friends when one doesnt tell the other what he or she feels. maybe you need to relook into this relationship of yours and see whether you are actually friends or only good acquaintances
meet her IN PERSON and tell her how you feel. and remember that females are senstive and need to be treated accordingly.
Leave the past as the past. You have vowed to change how you treat her in the future and that is all you can do.
Show people the same amount of respect that you want to recieve from them.
I am sure everything will be fine.
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