How do you deal with Sarcasm?
I have a son-14 and ex-9 cut from the same cloth that always have a sarcastic remark for everything. How do you deal with people like this? Do you agree with them, argue or ignore them?
So far nothing has worked. Maybe this is a way for attention, I don't know, but it certianly pisses me off when it is done in public. grrrrrrr..... ![]()
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When I have read Robgen's comment, I can consider myself a sarcastic person ... So I am going to see it from this angle ... It happens rarely that I say things, so mostly they are sarcastic remarks on stupid things mostly ... Not insulting at all ... This is a way of (as robgen has said) self-protection ... The only thing that would make it "easier" to handle is not paying too much attention on the remarks ... And trying to analyse what can cause such remakrs .. Doing a kind of psychological analysis of the child can work although I can't say that at the moment ... Maybe later on I can say if that is going to work because in about 2 hours I have to see a psychologist.
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Sarcasm is extremely irritating, and said by some as "the lowest form of wit". I think it's often used as a substitute for real humour.
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How do you deal with people like this?? You mean how do i deal with myself?!
^^^^ "Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit" - bullsh*t. I DO have 'real' humour. I'm a sarcastic and cynical b'stard, but that's just me. I (usually) mean no offence by it; it's just my nature. Lowest form of wit my arse.
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I guess you don't understand what sarcasm is!
I can be quite sarcastic too sometimes.
Well, allegedly, neither did Oscar Wilde:
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Sarcasm isn't always negative, but yeah when it intends to hurt someone it's cruel.
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Sarcasm isn't always negative, but yeah when it intends to hurt someone it's cruel.
True. I had a lot of nasty sarcasm directed at me many years ago when I was at school, which is probably why I don't like to be sarcastic myself in my adult life.
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There's nothing wrong with a bit of sarcasm. In small doses it can get most people through the day.
sarcasm is good;maybe sometimes even essential..depends on the degree of sarcasm,when it turns into cynism its often not so funny anymore.
concerning yur kids : "fight fire with fire"! ![]()
My daughter is very sarcastic, so she gets it
honestly LOL! I am just sarcastic back, might not be
the best way to deal with it, but it's fun
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Since this is your children being sarcastic with you...this would be a little different, I'd say.
Perhaps a more subtle way to rebel a bit against your authority?
If I was you I wouldn't let it go too far...but at the same time...I wouldn't make a big deal of it either.
They may be testing their limits with you.
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Is she being nasty sarcastic or witty sarcastic?
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Its a nasty sarcasm. Like if you happen to not say something perfectly correct, or you are not being specific enough... wooah, watch out! My ex was like that and so is my son.
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Personally, if someone is sarcastic to me, he gets it right back at him.
But as it is for your kid, that might not be the best solution. Maybe ignoring it would be better and wait till it wears of.
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I try to ignore it ... usually they jus wanna wind ya up and i refuse to let them do that to me
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Speaking from a psychological point of view, most use sarcasm as a defensive measure and is usually hiding something else?
I'm curious to know if you've sat them down and explained your concerns?
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You are totally correct, it is a defense guard. My ex's whole family is like that, (Hurt them, before they get a chance to hurt you was what many of them told me) Wow real family values here!
I had chatted many times with my son about this and since he lives with me 24/7 so he has come around a lot.
He has also noticed recently at school that putting sarcasm on a back burner, tends to bring friends closer. Thanks everyone for your advice. ![]()
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Basically you shouldnt deal with sarcasm, sarcatic people are bastards...
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Well...I just stop talking to myself and teach myself a lesson!
Sarcasm can actually be okay if used in an intelligent humour sort of way. It's all about how you respond. Some people respond immaturely, some with a more informed view.
Sarcasm... I'm full of it! So I don't have to deal with it. Just fire back I guess
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Oh, sarcasm is one of my reasons of life. I don't think I could live in a world without irony and sarcasm, which is why I often have issues living in a world which takes itself so seriously all the time.
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if someone is sarcastic with me, i don't deal with it, i don't have to, there's no time for it, and there's more important things to do with my time. usually i just ignore it. but sometimes it can be a little difficult to not deal with it. i really should not be dealing with it at all, not just not dealing with it most of the time.
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i can be sarcastic when i want to be, but the way i deal with sarcastic people is to dis-arm them with the power of laughter, if there trying to be nasty but not coming straight out with it, laugh at them. If there trying to be a smart ass, then just brush it off, if you don't react against it, they lose the power to affect you.
Well that how i do it anyway, other people will have other ways i suspect.
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I like people who use sarcasm in a positive way without insultings and all that. In my opinion only a few people are able to be sarcastic, those who have something to say. Sarcastic people sometimes suffer more than we think of, it's sometimes only a feign of what they really think or feel. See behind the persons character and analyse, because they aren't as strong as they act. It's not a weakness, it's just a thing called self protection.