Intimacy issues (sexual or emotional)?

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Bad Kitteh | 20 Oct 2007 - 5:39pm

Have you ever been in a loving relationship with anyone who has issues regarding being intimate, sexually or emotionally??
How did you cope?

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malefalling_fenix | 20 October 2007 - 6:13pm

At first, my ex-girlfriend had some issues with intimacy, but things got better. I wasn't in a hurry and since i wasn't 'only after one thing' and i cared about her, it was easy to cope. I just wanted to be with her. We talked about it.


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femaleserenity_1 | 21 October 2007 - 8:53pm

nope .... i think i would find that pretty difficult to cope with sumone who was like that


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femalerhcp_fan | 22 October 2007 - 12:56pm

I used to be like that. My exes didn't seem to be able to cope with it.


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femaleMoonlight_Izzy | 22 October 2007 - 9:46pm

I was like that for a very long time but luckily I've had some understanding boyfriends who've understood and helped me out. Smile


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femaleit_wasnt_me04 | 23 October 2007 - 1:13am

i used to be like that with an ex-partner. it wasn't a loving relationship anyway.


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femaleMoonShadow | 23 October 2007 - 10:16am

My husband is not emotionally on my level, and
it does cause problems...how do I cope, well,
I don't which leaves me resentful and alone
sometimes.


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femaleAura321 | 23 October 2007 - 8:23pm

heh yeah, i was with a guy for 2 years who didnt so much as touch me.. I didn't really 'cope with it'.. I just figured I was repulsive Laughing

maleken4fun | 29 March 2008 - 6:12am

thank God i never had to face with such a situation. it would freak me out.

femaleorangerain | 30 March 2008 - 2:54am

I used to have issues on being emotionally intimate with my boyfriend. I was always distant before in fear of getting hurt. However, after six months of being together, I think I've overcome that issue already.

How did he cope? My boyfriend was always there to reassure me that he loves me -- and he lived up to that. He has always been very understanding. Smile


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female.anka. | 2 May 2008 - 10:48pm

nope, never had anything like that