Parents are really touchy about that kinda thing.
I know when I was a teen, my parents didnt want me to get my hair permed (was fashionable at the time).
And my sister had really long blonde hair, and my mum wouldnt let her cut it.

I guess you need to reason with your Mum, try and have a adult convo about it with her, and dont let her get you mad. Respect her thoughts on the subject, but try to rationalize your reasons you want to with her.
Good Luck!

And defo dont do it behind her back, that would be totally disrespectful.

Try seeing if she'll let you use temporary dye? Maybe try it out over the weekend or in vacation time. Compromise is the key here.

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By the way, just looked at your profile, and you're hair is totally gorgeous anyway. So dont stress if she says no. You're already very pretty.

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my mom lets me dye my hair a little, like getting highlights and stuff like that, but i think she would freak if i completely changed my hair colour to something out there

Limiter released! Rebellious teenager mode activated. Get the hell out of my way.

my mom has been lettin me since i was 12yrs but thats only cuze she use to do it herself !!!!!!!!!!!!!

All I'm gonna do is just go on and do what I feel.
~Jimi Hendrix

I think this is great advice. parents sometimes forget that their teen children are building identities and trying to figure out what they like, how they want to appear and so on. If you can do what Caroline was suggesting above, I think will go along way towards your mom opening up to realising this *and* perhaps even worrying less about you as you make that journey.

Definitely don't allow the conversation to fall apart--that will work against you because your mom will believe you are unable to have an adult or adult-like conversation. And suggesting the compromise is a fantastic idea--it could lead to bigger and better...good luck!

From the sublime to the ridiculous is but one step--Napolean Bonaparte

Please don't dye your hair. There will come a time when you 'need' to dye your hair and there's no point putting yourself through all that crap until you have to.

i can dye my hair if i want to, i made a bet with mum, if i won it i can dye it any color i want

live each moment in your life like you're going to die the next moment, life is too short to waste it on fights and being sad, SMILE!!!!!!!!!!

I surely can understand you mother ... I have a cousin who does change her hair colour every now and than and I really don't see a reason why someone would want to do that ... Out of the picture you have on your profile I can make out that you hair must be dark brownish (not 100% sure about it though) and I don't think that it need to be dyed ... I really wonder why someone in the past came up with the idea to dye hair ... Why can't you keep it in its natural colour? You don't like your hair color?

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dyeing your hair is a fashion thing. it does not have anything to do with not liking your own hair colour generally. like sometimes i'll have highlights and that's it because i think it looks nice. you don't do it and don't have a desire to so you won't understand it.

Limiter released! Rebellious teenager mode activated. Get the hell out of my way.

My mum dyed my hair ginger for the very first time when I was 9. I was so happy with the result that I had her dye it 3 or 4 times each year but with different colours! I was really proud of my mum since she had let me do it when I was so young. I was the first student at my school to dye my hair which made me really popular..

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i first dyed my hair when i was 11. they were red and look really terrible but i liked them and my mum didn't have a problem with that. i can dye my hair whenever and however i want because it's me who has to run around looking like this

I have dyed my hair black with violet tint twice and green once I think that my mother let me dye my hair, but I don't wanna to do that, I like my natural hair color now

*sun*

I’m over 16 now but my mum let me dye my hair b4 i was 16 [ she wouldn't let me go OTT but she let me go dark brown/black] but now i have a choc brown colour - pink streaks are next

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Yeahh she allowss mee.. but nothing drastic!

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First time i dyed my hair where when I was 12 years old

My mum didn't let me dye my hair too. But now I am 14, but i have to ask her...and i am not allowed to dye it in pink or green or blue. only natural colors...except blonde cause it destroys my hair ^^

before i was 16 my mom wouldn't let me dye my hair. but now i'm 17 she's less strict with me. well at least she didn't freak out when i got blue highlights done

*Shit happens*

they did let me do it,my mom couldn't have said so much either cause she's said she used to dye her hair herself from the age of 13..

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Ahh my parents don't care, even when i was 13 they didn't care about the matter.. But i've never done it, no point, i like my hair as it is.