Nasty Words As Jokes

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Lady Justice | 22 Nov 2007 - 11:21pm

Have your friends ever called you with unrespectful words as a joke? I hear some people calling each other "idiot","whore","fool" or something else like those. They think they are so comfortable with these words because they are really good friends and can understand these "little" jokes.
Would it annoy you?

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malejulius_civilis | 22 November 2007 - 11:36pm

Laughing a sort of friend, depends how much he annoys me calls me "Tom Cruise" as a joke. But we always give each other crap... This same guy, his name is stillwell, I asked if he got his shoes at the Goodwill(a thrift store for poor people) or pic n' save(a low quality store). No one means harm its just for laughs.

But I have heard fool, fucker, and more used in this way.


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malemaranello | 23 November 2007 - 12:39am

I wouldn't like anyone to call me nasty words like that. Not very friendly is it?

femalechillipepper | 23 November 2007 - 1:54am

if he/she is really a good friend I don't mind... I will called him/her the same thing as he/she called.


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femaleafro_bree | 23 November 2007 - 2:12am

i take no offense to it just as long as i have known the person for a while. but i do all that stuff to my friends alot! Very happy


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malepietro della | 23 November 2007 - 5:39am

time and circumstance affect everything..take the word 'wanker' 20 years ago it was a down putting deadly insult..today in many countries it has become a form of greeting,but ONLY between good friends..i wouldnt advise using it on introduction...

malemicha65 | 23 November 2007 - 8:58am

I agree at least some of the words annoy me.

femalearym | 23 November 2007 - 10:45am

I used to do that a lot with a friend of mine.. we would call each other all sorts of insulting names, but we might as well use overly complimenting names.. it was always said with a smile and never had any misunderstandings.. but another person once overheard me calling my friend something insulting and I got into a huge argument with that person because she thought that I was hurting people when I spoke like that, despite I never called her anything like that. If you only do it with people who can stand that type of joke, then I think it is no harm.


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maleAtreides | 23 November 2007 - 2:25pm

Hahaha... I can't avoid it, it's a habit where I live. Part of the city "slang" or something. So we call each other real nasty names, and everybody knows that is a joke and look for a nastier retort. But everybody knows too when it's not simply a joke, and problems arise... So, we live continually in a kind of state of balance between the two poles.


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maleJanus_ | 24 November 2007 - 10:36pm

It all depends on who says it and in what tone/context.


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femaleLeaa | 27 November 2007 - 8:52pm

If I knew the person well and they were a good friend of mine, it wouldn't bother me, mostlikely they would be receiving the same endearing names from me. Razz


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femaleserenity_1 | 29 November 2007 - 8:40pm

Certain friends i will jus joke and mess about n they know i am not serious and it goes both ways - i dont let it bother me cos i know they dont mean it in nasty way nor me ...


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male10ur83 | 1 December 2007 - 1:20am

agree with chillipepper..

femalelucky__me | 23 December 2007 - 5:47pm

Usually no. Sometimes as you really feel that it is a joke but really rarely

femaleFull Blown Sarcasm | 4 April 2008 - 12:37am

hmm yeah i got a friend who does that. she says something which i disagree with then she goes "f**k you" shows me the finger and then starts to laugh telling me she's just joking.... at first i was like what the heck!? now i'm so used to it it doesn't annoy me anymore.


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female_skiso_ | 6 April 2008 - 10:28am

it doesnt annoy me, i sometimes do that too and i dont mind when my friends call me idiot, retard etc. just as a joke


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