Porn
How do you feel if your spouse/bf likes to watch porn for pleasure? Do you think it is alright or is he being insensitive to your feeling?
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I don't date men so i don't really have to worry about that. But if my partner did, i'd go mental and persuade her to not watch it again. I'm just very anti-porn.
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I don't see why it would be any kind of problem. Besides, some girls watch porn too, not just guys. It's not really any of my business anyway if my boyfriend wants to watch it.
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All guys watches porn regularly, tons of porn, you just have to live with it. Only cause for alarm is when it gets to odd things like pissing dwarfs, violence and stuff like that.
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I would watch porn with him. ![]()
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What's wrong with that ? Don't be so selfish. You have to be sensitive to his feelings as well.
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PORN actors and actresses are the worst in film industry and very boring to watch. They have no talents, so I AND MY PARTNER have no time for untalented and cheap actors
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Within reason...it would be OK..
I've watched it myself..
But anyone watching it constantly...obsessively...has a problem.
Porn can be an addiction, like anything else...and should not replace the real world and real people..real women.
Also..he should be capable of being sensitive to YOUR feelings as well or he's not a keeper..
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nothing wrong, i watch it too
Watched it before, personally doesn't do anything for me and if Emma wants to watch it then fine but I'd only have a problem if it becomes where she'd prefer to watch porn then be intimate with me.
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It's not a big deal. He can watch whatever he wants to.
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well somehow men need porn..lol.. i still dont know why, but if my bf wants to watch it, sure no problem, as long as he does not cheat in the real world :-)
I don't think I've seen a porn movie in a couple of years! (at least) I don't think there's anything wrong with it, just didn't have time..or hey, if I had a choice of spending my 1+ hours of free time & wanted to watch a movie..let's say, I had 2 choices: Pan's Labyrinth or a porn..well, I just didn't want to waste the time watching faked orgasms.
But, if my hubby wanted to watch one, I wouldn't have any objections..it has also been a couple of years for him, though...with 3 kids in the house..well, let's just say, we keep it porn-free.
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if he wants to watch them fine with me .. so long as he dont come to me for sexual release after
If we were together i would rather be concentrating on us rather than some faked orgasms hahahah
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closing tabs, i swear they were just pop-ups!
i guess it would be alright as long as these simple rules are followed...
-the people in the porn wanted to do it
-its nothing weird or illegal
-and that your not addicted to it
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While this ^^^^ is bullshit, it's down to what you are willing to accept in your relationship. Some couples watch porn together, some couples say it improves their sex lives, some people hate it and think it's just tacky shit. It's not about whether it's 'right' or 'wrong'; it's just down to what you're into/what you like/what you're willing to tollerate. Personally, i'd rather have sex with my girlfriend than watch a couple of cheesy porn stars writhing about and moaning.
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hell no! that's sick, why would anyone want to watch porn, yuck! anyone who watches it better get a life, fast!
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Nope, I just won't accept it in a relationship at all. I always make it quite clear; you can have me, or you can have a series of cheap, meaningless images and clips to fill your head with. Can't have both I'm afraid. ![]()
The thought of it iisn't nice at all, but,what can you do..
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I don't mind him watching porn, as long as I'M number 1 and the porn isn't too weird.. but even then.. I think it's more about priorities.. does he rather watch porn than "make porn" with you? How do you feel about it and does he care if your uncomfortable with it...
It's all good fun. I don't see why you should worry over if your partner watches porn. There's a difference between what we their eyes see and what they do in reality. By the same logic I should worry about my friends who like violent movies. Watch whatever you like, if it makes you happy.
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I agree with falling_fenix, its what you like and what suits you and your partner best. Mind this topic is about in a RELATION so it does matter what your other half feels about it. My girlfriend would be totally ok with it though I dont feel any need for it. The only time we watch pornographic stuff is probably the nasty though funny shock stuff which doesnt really have anything to do with actualy sex but with fun. Most porn is good for laughs...
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i would never ever date a guy who likes porn. i believe it's insensitive and betrays the relationship and that also tells me that to him sex is nothing but a pleasure game.
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Oh geeze! Then ull have to find a one in a billion!! I have never even met a guy who doesnt watch porn!! Im not sayin that they don't exist, but they are not really common
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Oh, my...
there is nothing wrong with it! It's not like he's cheating on you...
but if you feel unconfortable with it, you should try watching it with him...
then, you'd see that watching porn is not that big deal AND you would also have the opportunity to "steal" the attention
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watz d big deal watching porn, huh? How does it edify or improve one's skill in d 'ACT'. To me its all big rubbish, I've watched porns over and over again - doesn't satisfy but leaves a big gulf to yearn for more and before u know it - YOU'RE AN ADDICT. The need for some self restrain is advised here else u gonna demand for some moves ur partner can't give ya.
i watch lots of porn. and for me its just like a tv show. watch and forget. i think thats why my wife does not have a problem with it. sometimes she comes over and watches with me. coz she knows it does not turn me as on as she does.
i have caught him watching it and nearly killed him...
problem is he is not as interested in the "show" as much as he is interested in the women in the "show."
hint hint...wink wink ![]()
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I don't really mind if it's nice cult porn, but we rather make our own porn
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It bores me... well, unless it's kinky. Something involving a bicycle pump, one dozen oysters and an ostrich feather perhaps.. but watching others' "horizontal folk-dancing" is a bit of a yawn unless I'm getting a slice of the action. Maybe I'd enjoy it more if I watched it with a banana up my ass...


















There is nothing wrong with watching porn or anything else. You are just looking for something to give you pleasure or maybe to educate you. Each individual's choice should be valued and accepted.
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