Equality in the Bedroom

  female
Leaa | 3 Apr 2008 - 9:01pm

Can there be such a thing or is dominance more attractive?
(A wee bit on the more controversial side, but none the less, definately a part of relationships.)

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maleSkyPiercer | 3 April 2008 - 9:25pm

Dominance is a lot more attractive Wink


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femaleBad Kitteh | 3 April 2008 - 10:37pm

Yes you can have total equality, dont dont have to b either dom or sub.
I wouldnt say that dom is more attractive, but I think men who are sub can be a little bit offputting sometimes. Depends on how you view men...and I tend to think of men as macho...which would be a dom trait.


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femaleserenity_1 | 3 April 2008 - 10:44pm

I dont think total dominance is attractive .. it can be at times if u both know how to take control when the time is right but u also have to know how to equally work well together ...


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maleGaryLynn | 3 April 2008 - 11:39pm

Handcuffs anyone ?? HaHa!


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maleilovetrees | 4 April 2008 - 1:57am

I vote for equality. My personal opinion here. It's worked for me for 41 years. Maybe not for everyone, but I think it's the way to be.

malepietro della | 4 April 2008 - 6:06am

Is the missionary position with humans not dominance?dolphins also do it face to face as do whales..

malescholes | 4 April 2008 - 8:20am

Some women think the men should take the first step or something. I don't really care, if that's what she wants Smile


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femaleeileenflynn | 4 April 2008 - 9:34am

it doesnt really matter.. i think some men can be dominant and I find that very attractive but women can be equally dominant when it comes to something that they want Smile
I know i can be anyway Wink

femalerosbief | 4 April 2008 - 9:44am

both Smile change is necessary in the bedroom


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female.anka. | 30 April 2008 - 9:29pm

equality, sometimes you make the first move, the other time your partner does but dominance is definitely not my kinda thing

malepietro della | 1 May 2008 - 4:15am

Equality=choreography=leave me out !

maleSnoopy2 | 1 May 2008 - 8:39pm

I dont like to be dominated nor do I like to dominate

maleDetroit-Escalat... | 1 May 2008 - 9:32pm

Equality should be the basis in all areas of a relationship.
In an ideal situation dominance can come from either side at any moment.
But it has to be consensual and it can't ever result in unacceptable behavior.


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