True Friend

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crimson_alastor | 6 Apr 2008 - 2:07am

Is there a certain person that you call your true friend? The person who be happy for you, cry for you, who wont talk behind your back, lent no ear to what other people said about you, who would smile just to see you, contacts you even if you are far apart etc, etc

So far i have no luck finding such person. Tell me your stories to inspire me to find my own. Smile

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femaleafro_bree | 6 April 2008 - 2:34am

i have a friend like that i dont see her as often though but we still manage to stay in contact even though our paths are going down different roads. we cry with eachother all the time. she is the only person i have cried around besides my mother shes a true friend is always by my side no matter what. i wouldnt as for anyone else Smile Very happy !!!!


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malemicha65 | 6 April 2008 - 8:01am

Yes,I have such a friend,he is called Gerard and we know each other for 34 years already.

femaleorangerain | 6 April 2008 - 10:07am

Yes, I have two friends that are like that. My guy best friend and my girl best friend. I'm so lucky to have such people in my life.


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malecrimson_alastor | 6 April 2008 - 10:32am

micha65 wrote:

Yes,I have such a friend,he is called Gerard and we know each other for 34 years already.

oh wow...34 years is such a long time. Congratulations, you are so lucky to find such friend. I wonder if it is possible with people nowadays without being used etc...
Actually the reason i post this because I thought about this true friend things last night, and it renders me restless. You see there's this person whom i know since my early teens, and i enjoy my friendship with him. And he enjoyed it as well, or so i thought. I would be there for him in happiness or pain, and would treat him to movies etc if i had the time, just to strengthen our friendship...Something that wasnt really there.
I never thought anything bad about him, nor i would go and stab his back if things happen. And my ignorance took its toll this past years.He failed to do what friends usually do. I never seen him there when i needed someone to talk with. He never even sent me birthday messages, heck, he didnt even remember my birthday without the expense of someone telling him! Whereas i knew almost everything about him. In short, i have been ignorant of the fact he never thought of me a friend.
The worst thing is that once, i had been admitted to the hospital for an operation. He knew about it and yet i see him not in my ward, nor his message in my phone. Yet when another friend was admitted because he tried to kill himself, he came and visited him. That's when i knew i never had been a friend to him, despite my efforts. Sad


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malepietro della | 6 April 2008 - 1:09pm

I have a friend,we have been friends for 20 years,his name is Itzhak.He looks up to me because of my military past and i look up to him because of his superior knowledge of our faith..It is good you have realised that the man you thought was a friend is not..friendship should not entail a daily accounting as to who gave what to the friendship but i think now you are wiser and more able to determine who is what..Maybe if you give a little and see what you get in return,slowly slowly..Good luck ,its nice to have a friend..

femaleLeaa | 11 April 2008 - 6:43pm

I thought I had a true friend, but when when I really needed them this past week, excuses for disappearing became my support. Oh, I am sure to hear from her again when she needs me. A real true friend is really hard to find, hold on tight when you do. Smile


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femaleserenity_1 | 11 April 2008 - 10:55pm

I have one true friend ... even thou we dont see each other often, if i called her in middle of nite she would prob get in her car and drive round if i really needed her too Smile


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femaleTiamo | 20 April 2008 - 1:57pm

Yes, I have several best friends, but one of them is my really true friend.
I can talk with her about everything, I can be myself with her. I know her for many years now, and we had some "fights" in the beginning, but it's totally over now!


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maleCitizen | 22 April 2008 - 11:12pm

I know two or three person who i consider as a true friend.

In Turkish, "Bad day friend" (im not sure if translation is not correct) is used to mean "True friendship". Razz

maleCitizen | 22 April 2008 - 11:14pm

I know two or three person who i consider true friend.

In Turkish, "Bad day friend" (im not sure if translation is not correct) is used to mean "True friendship". Razz

femaleRika Kosta | 3 May 2008 - 6:19pm

to find a true friend is much more difficult than to find your love...
you can be sure that it`s real friend only after years
i hope i have one i can call my true friend Wink well, i will see


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femalecatmania | 5 May 2008 - 8:41am

I've had one friend for may years already,since my childhood. She's like a sister to me - we both value our friendship a lot. Despite of all differences and disagreements between us,we always help each other when there's such a need.