Hello Youssouf, and welcome to this community.

You haven't chosen the right channel for your topic. You should go to "General Channels" and you will find a Love and relationship (not sure of the exact name) channel. You will get some helpful advice there!

Cheers

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Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not even sure about the former-Albert Einstein

I met my current boyfriend on the internet. Now we've been together for quite a while and we're happy. We are even moving together next week.

"If we are going to teach creation science as an alternative to evolution, then we should also teach the stork theory as an alternative to biological reproduction." (Judith Hayes)

thank's for the advice friend

that was done !
hope to read answers ...

mm nice story ... but i think you was living in the same country ... right ?

Yeah, that's one important thing. I've also tried dating foreign guys I met online but the distance was always too much of a problem. My advice is to find someone who lives relatively close you to and then meet the person in real life as soon as possible.

"If we are going to teach creation science as an alternative to evolution, then we should also teach the stork theory as an alternative to biological reproduction." (Judith Hayes)

I think your attitude might be wrong. If you're just online to find a girlfriend you're most likely not to find it. You might catch the non-serious girls like that (that's probably why you only had short things) but you're most likely to scare the serious girls far far away.

It's possible though. If you're lucky enough . I myself for example, a good bunch of my friends here too and two of my friends even got married earlier this month

Style is never out of fashion.

Erm, how come you do not meet women who live near you & that?

I would not "date" someone online, I would want to see someone in the flesh if I was looking for a relationship.

But I guess somepeople do do that.

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If you're looking for something/someone, you'll never find it.
Stay in the virtual world and make friends, maybe you'll find a nice girl one day. Just don't go desperately looking for one.

Follow the cloud that looks like a sheep!

thats exactly what i think, too!!

I can't even trust someone in person

Genius is the ability to utilize all the means at hand for the accomplishment of the end sought. Napoleon

i think it's stupid to look for girlfriend on the internet. you will never get what you are looking for...you either find her coincidentally or you will not find at all.
and my advice is to leave this virtual world and get a life

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firstly welcome, i admit that finding love on the internet isn't for everyone, i met my ex online and even though it didn't work i learnt some lessons from it. You do what you think is right for you, but best advice is, is to find a woman in your local area, going overseas to find a girlfriend doesn't always work out for the best.

It's definitely possible!
I met my wife 8 years ago on the internet. She lived 5000+ miles away.

If you are looking for a serious relationship, then you need to go where there are others looking for the same. Chatting sites tend to not be such, I think.

You probably need to use a a specialist dating site... I met my wife on what was matchmaker.com... not sure if it even exists anymore.

The other thing is that your heart has to be open. There are many interpretations of what this means, which, I won't go into now. But basically, if you over-analyse and seek "The Truth", you will end up closing your heart.

I disagree that it's not possible to get to know a person from the internet as well or even better than a flesh and blood person you meet down the pub. Obviously, with my wife, we also talked on the phone a lot and met a few times before we knew...

We all learn to wear masks from an early age, and while it may be true that it's harder to keep a new (and presumably, fake) mask on in person, we've all had so much practice at it, who will ever know who we truly are !?

Anyway, good luck in your quest, whether on the internet or in person.

Drink & Enjoy the Journey, bofore the Bliss begins !

yours ....maybe a good idea to leave internet to try woman..................
look this site............people goes from a profile to an other and the interesting things that say are:
im glad to meet you, have a nice day, hi, what'up and so on.......
im trying to speak with woman to fuck together ....... platonic love is only an old movie dream.
i think that there is a lot of hypocrisy here........woman are here to try somebody who fuck them.
no good so

Yes u may find her.Why not?! Here even ppl talk on internet at last they r whole humanbeing.No one comes from space...

Many people have said good points already, but I will ofer just two quick points.

Firstly, why only look online? Unless you live in a mens prison there has to be females near by and you just have to do what a lot of people struggle with but succeed with in time, go out and meet people. Maybe try a singles site for your area.

Next you do realize what an internet relationship means right? Long periods apart if you are unable o be together. There are always going to be issues with this no matter what and in time you have to ask if it is worth it and if your ready.

"I pity people who don't drink. When they wake up feeling good in the morning, that is the best they are going to feel" Frank Sinatra

All things are possible, but i don't believe in any relationships on the internet (just IMHO)..
Perhaps you should turn your pc off and look for your love in real life..

Upon my faith!!

Eventually finding a real love is certainly possible, but I doubt an internet relationship can work out. It's just a little odd.

Anyway, you shouldn't specifically look for it. Just as in real life. You'll meet her by accident some day, I'm sure. Oh and I really believe you can fall in love with someone via the internet, by chatting and things. But to seal the deal you need to meet her. No question about it.

Stop looking and start enjoying life. You'll meet her. And I know what I'm talking about

"If God wanted women to understand men, football would never have been created." - Roger Simon

If you would have asked that one year ago, I would have said that, for me personally, this idea is unthinkable; a definite "no".
It happened to me anyway, despite all comon sense. Aside from the fact, that I am in a real-time relationship now (not with the girl I met online), I would never go for something like that again.
The others are right, if you are looking for a partner, dont do it online and dont look too hard. Go out, socialize and allow things to happen.

Twas brillig, and the slithy toves Did gyre and gimbel in the wabe.
All mimsy were the borogoves, And the mome raths outgrabe.

yes its possible!! but the two of you must be willing to make sacrifices and go the extra mile or two in order to have a stable long distance relationship. of course the true test of the whole thing will be when who is gonna be the one to move to the other's country?! that's a big thing!
dont give up! good luck

"I dont need the internet..I already know everything."

yes its posible to fall in love with sumone u meet online...

Every blade of grass has its angel that bends over it and whispers, 'Grow, grow.'

Apparently it's quite possible, but if i were looking for true love, the net wouldn't be my first port of call. I mean, i wouldn't actively go looking for love on the internet. Try the real world first.

"Watch your step by the crowd of fanatics, while they kill in the name of applied mathematics"

Right on, bro!

Ishtar! My offering: Three turnips and a carrot!

You don't find love. Love finds you... Wherever it happens, whenever it happens...

It's more likely love would ring to your door after stopping looking for it.

AAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!! Sisko you're not nice didn't anyone tell you there is always HOPE!!!! without it you have nothing!! You never know from what I have read there have been a few happy endings. I wouldn't do it only because I'd never get out of the house, I would be glued to the computer all day. Thank GOD I am blessed with a good man!!

THE CHRISTIAN LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER IS LIKE COMPUTER HARDWARE WITHOUT THE SOFTWARE!!!!!

The internet can be just another avenue for meeting people..
but you have to go about it realistically..
The person should live fairly close to you and you should meet them as soon as you can..

If you're trying to have some online romance with someone on the other side of the world..
you're living in fantasy land.

The best way to cheer yourself up...is to cheer somebody else up..
MT

Hi again Youssouf! If you are still looking for your dream girl than try looking on this site: www.qiran.com I think, considering your name and where you are from that you are Muslim, so this site is for Muslim matrimony! Good luck

"I dont need the internet..I already know everything."

Love always comes when you aren't looking or when you least expect it!!!

THE CHRISTIAN LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER IS LIKE COMPUTER HARDWARE WITHOUT THE SOFTWARE!!!!!

i met my husband on myspace and we started dating....and now we are married. but love really comes when you are not looking for it.

Hi.

I'm on the internet for 7 years now. I often met people in reality but I never forgot also doing something with my real friends. So I had my real and my virtual world. Some of my net friends became real friends. Aaaand I got to know my boyfriend on my favourite website (www.studivz.net - it's the German/Austrian "copy" of www.facebook.com). We went to the same school but never met there because of our age difference (he's six years older than me). First we just mailed and got along so perfectly. After a while, I'd say one or two months, we met and it was like love at first sight. We're a couple since July 2007 and still as happy as on the first day we saw each other!

So I'd say. You can keep spending time on the internet with other surfers but never forget you have a real life too!