Letting Somone Down!
This is such a hard thing to do, and I guess it is unavoidable for someone to be hurt. But I have an idea about this. I had relationships in the past( I won't tell you how far past) and I have learned that you shouldnt waste your time or theirs if you want to move on. Someone is bound to be hurt, but is far better to do it quick and move on? Any thoughts?
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THE CHRISTIAN LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER IS LIKE COMPUTER HARDWARE WITHOUT THE SOFTWARE!!!!!
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I've been in the situation and I absolutely agree with you. It was still hard tho.
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"If God wanted women to understand men, football would never have been created." - Roger Simon
Letting someone down is inevitable. If the relationship is going nowhere or breaking apart, it is best to just end it right away to avoid further pain.
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Of all the strategems, to know when to quit is the best.
You are only the best person you can be to make yourself satisfied. You can only do so much, but when you start to feel used or infringed upon this is the time to stop. If people put expectations on you, this is their need, not yours. If they are disappointed you didn't meet their ideals, that's their problem.
You can't make everyone elses life perfect and sacrifice your own. What's the purpose of being?
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When we resolve to hurt, this is when we resolve to fail.
Well said Leaa!
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THE CHRISTIAN LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER IS LIKE COMPUTER HARDWARE WITHOUT THE SOFTWARE!!!!!
Yep Leaa! Well put 
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"I dont need the internet..I already know everything."
yep better to get it over and done with than to string them along and give them false hope. It may hurt initially but in the long run is better for you both
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Every blade of grass has its angel that bends over it and whispers, 'Grow, grow.'
You are better off doing it quick, so that to minimize pain as with time it will only get worse.
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Never argue with an idiot. They will only drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
yup, there is no another way except letting him/her down if you are not able to do him/her happy anymore...
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I am nobody's little weasel
Although its very hard to do, you are doing the right thing, I wish you all the best.
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~Always remember you're unique, just like everyone else~
Absolutely. The sooner the better. The more it drags on, the more hurt can be caused. It's better to get it over with as quickly as possible, even though it can be painful.
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"Watch your step by the crowd of fanatics, while they kill in the name of applied mathematics"
I agree or you will both be very unhappy.