Problems at home

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Leaa | 13 May 2008 - 5:30pm

My son has a friend (16), who seems to always be getting a raw deal at home. No matter what he does, his younger brother always gets away with everything. (even utensil fights). My son wants him to move in with us for a while. Good idea? Bad idea? I suggested a school counselor. What advice would you give?

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malescholes | 13 May 2008 - 6:53pm

I think taking him in would be a bad idea. It's not your thing to deal with. A school counselor would be a much better idea.


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malerichard4u2 | 14 May 2008 - 12:21am

there are arrogant parents out there who will devote all their time and love for a child and ignore other children , you must know this kid, do you want him in your home? if you have not met him yet get to meet him and if you think he is a normal kid or not or if it is all in his head


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i dont know wot i been told

femaleSamantha9210 | 14 May 2008 - 8:17pm

I think your suggestion as a school counselor is a very good idea. From personal experience with friends and my parents, I do not think it's a good idea to let him move in. It sucks that his friend isn't treated very fairly at home, but I believe that is something for his family to work out. Your son's friend's family may become hostile towards you and/or your son. I understand that I'm rather young and definitely not a parent yet, so I can't give advice from a parental point of view, but I hope everything works out OK Smile


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maleSnoopy2 | 19 May 2008 - 11:22am

We were many children at home and my parents "lend" two of us to relatives for some years. One of my brothers even was adopted by his fosterparents. I think nobody was seriously harmed.