When u love someone but cannot have them....?

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Sistiana | 15 May 2008 - 6:29pm

My elder sister has a huge problem, according to her, she's in love. The problem is she can't have the guy she wants because he's one of the 'popular' people & apparently, she's a nerd. It started 9 months ago & since then she mostly thinks of him. What do i do to help her? What advice would you give to her?

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malescholes | 15 May 2008 - 7:52pm

I'd advice her to take her chances and tell him. Otherwise you'll never know and you certainly will regret it. At least that's what I've learned...


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femalegeorgia | 15 May 2008 - 10:11pm

Try to talk to him and see how it all goes. If it does not work out, just move on, there is no use in wasting time on somebody that cannot return our feelings and get involved !


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femalekerriejane | 16 May 2008 - 1:18pm

its nothing to worry about, we all get crushes on the 'popular' boys at school. its a rite of passage , she will get over it and move on.

femalenapster | 16 May 2008 - 5:16pm

I think she should tell the guy she likes. Because if he doesn't, at least she'll know, otherwise it will be bothering her.


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maleHunter92 | 30 June 2008 - 5:34pm

You can only say her tahat accept it.It is hard but what you can do.I am sorry about your sister

maleHunter92 | 30 June 2008 - 5:34pm

You can only say her tahat accept it.It is hard but what you can do.I am sorry about your sister

maleHunter92 | 30 June 2008 - 5:35pm

You can only say her tahat accept it.It is hard but what you can do.I am sorry about your sister

femaledrew16 | 1 July 2008 - 3:12pm

She needs to tell him!
Seriously, what does she have to lose? She doesn't talk to him now anyway Razz