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Name: Dela Bobobee

Member for: 3 years 19 weeks

Last login: 1 year 38 weeks [offline]

Date of Birth: 01.07.1968(40)

Country: NIGERIA

Status: relationship

Website: Dela's website

I am looking for: relationship

Smoker: No

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"..Talking about myself ? Sometimes I prefare my friends or others to do the talking because I wonder how to fully designate or pin down my true qualities and character without sounding too much as if I am blowing my own horn. It is rather very remarkable how writers think.... we do the writing and let readers do the appreciation and the analysis....You write to tell in total objectivity ...you don't say or force your authorial fallacy on others. A girl once asked me to talk about myself in a chatroom ,which I barely did without really exhausting half of what my real self is. A guy, maybe out of envy of my popularity asked me... " ... If you are that good, why are you looking for an online relationship and not going for the real thing ? " I simply told him..." Life is a precious experience and myriads of new horizons begging to be explored. We need to sample other people's opinions and learn from others without being a local champion living in a delusion of granduer." Obviously, his reasons are manifestly flawed, as you can see. Indeed, I am a very versatile person with fever-pitch imaginative dimensions, intellectual stimulation, and an individualistic originality. I am a poet, playwright, actor, artist,comedian, musician ( published literary works in all genres right from my High school days through to my graduate level in the university ) I am also a verocious reader on a very wide variety. My close friends and relatives describe me as being really funny and full of zest for life in a very healthy atmosphere. Indeed, I enjoy life to the hilt. When it comes to blissful sense of humor, I am a total scream and much fun to be with, that is, if you do't mind spontaneously responding to my rib-cracking jokes and wits.Its a natural and unrestained reaction to my wit and sense of humor. I play the guitar, piano and the tenor-sax. I have started my hands on the clarinet. I enjoy driving strong and rugged cars, love learning foreign languages.delab@mtnnigeria.net.."

People Dela Would Like To Meet

""..I am also known as the SexyRedDrum.... which actually, is the HEART... that keeps on beating when every other drums stop beating. Any smart babe with a head on her shoulders who knows what she wants from a relationship and has the spark to keep it from getting cold. Honestly, we are all bundles of possibilities. When the chemistry is right, there won't be any need for a catalyst. I need ideal persons that that can contribute to the relationship by bringing out each others positive attributes without taking away from our various individualistic originality. We grow in love... NOT... fall in love. Agreed ? Go for it then ! LIFE is for the LIVING. Live it to the fullest. WELCOME to my exotic world of inexaustibly exquisite new discoveries of LIFE ! CHHEERS ! ( delab@mtnnigeria.net ).."

My Philosophy about life

Where determination exists, failure can't dismantle the flag of success ! Never give up the struggle to succeed in life. Dare to dream ... big dreams... and you will make it BIG TIME. Have foresight,for how far you go in life depends largely on how far you can foresee with intuition and keeping your visions and dreams alive. Your atittude to life determines your altittudes. Aim high. If you wanna be a billionaire think like one.

Great people are too busy to be sad, too positive to be doubtful, too optimistic to be be fearful, and too determined to be defeated. You are a GREAT PERSON ! Take a cue and go for it.

Those who dwell on the PAST lose track of the PRESENT and jeopardize the FUTURE. Life is for the LIVING.Life is a precious gift from God. Don't allow the past to steal away the joys of the present.Life is not linear ( a straight line ) it is circlical in nature. The present belongs to the LIVING, while the past belongs to the ancestors, and the future belongs to the unborn.History essentially repeats itself, hence we need to learn from our past mistakes to forestall ugly recurrence.