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social issues

godfred2u — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 11:43:29 +0100

it's money everything we seek?

question for guys

KL — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 20:06:59 +0100

Why do guys prefer to say "I love you" when in fact they need only sex and they are not sure whether they love or not.
In my case we had sex already, and I have never asked questions like "Do you love me?".
Then WHY???

Compliments

Aura321 — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 22:38:43 +0100

Been having a pretty interesting discussion with one of my girl friends recently about how many people you can secretly admire as you plod along through life who have absolutely no idea about the lovely things you think of them.

Do you think it would be a good thing to vocalise these things more often? I mean, if you find someone attractive should you tell them? As long as you're not treading on any toes of course..
but it's not that.. I mean, when you dont want anything out of the compliment, whenever you think something nice about someone shouldnt you just compliment them for compliments sake?

Are you that Girl?

ice man bleu — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 11:13:47 +0100

Hi ladies,

This thread is for girls only to answer. Not boys (sorry pals, but you guys will have your chances okay?)

Now, I'm not here to find a girlfriend or the likes of it. Nope, never. Why I'm here is because, I want to know whether there are a girl of my type in here, exclusively at www.mailfriends.com

So the question is...

[B]ARE YOU ONE OF THE TYPE OF GIRL I HAVE EVER DESIRED? [/B]

All I want from you girls is BE HONEST. Nothing else matters but BE YOURSELF and don't try pretend to be.

ARE YOU THIS TYPE OF GIRL?

1- Quiet / don't talk much
2- Polite in what you do and what you say

Traits That Get You Everytime :)

Mean Kitteh — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 11:48:20 +0100

Is there a certain trait in people that get you every time, hits ya nicely in the head and heart

How to act like a romantic?

popstar102 — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 08:15:31 +0100

When you are with a woman, what are things that you must practically do to be the most romantic man ever

Does a marriage need sex?

Mean Kitteh — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 13:35:18 +0100

According to a recent study, 40 million people are in sexless marriages -- sexless in the sense that the couples in question have sex less than 10 times a year (yikes!). The individuals that were polled offered a range of reasons as to why they were not having sex: Some cited busy lives that didn't allow time for it, others pointed to medications that affected their libidos, while others came up with the lamer reasoning that the bed wasn't sexy anymore (not necessarily because of an absence of satin sheets, but because couples often watched TV or brought their laptops or PDAs into the bedroom).

Why People Should Date after Marriage

GaryLynn — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 21:44:46 +0100

http://www.sosuave.com/romance/date.htm
by Michael Webb

One of the biggest complaints from men and women about their spouses is how much they have changed since they were first dating.

We tend to put our best foot forward during the courting ritual, doing our utmost to impress our dates. We try to be polite, courteous, caring, giving, sensitive, well-groomed and well-mannered. Then we get married (or engaged or move in together) and revert back to our old, self-centered, slovenly tendencies.

If you feel that your relationship may have lost some of its 'spark,' ask yourself if you are acting the same way as when you went out on those first few dates.

is older better?

melee1180 — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 07:12:42 +0100

Now don't get me wrong all u older men out there... I think your all great with the odd exception or 20... haha... but do you think that dating an older man is better?... I am 28 years old and previous dating experience has shown me that guys aged 28 to 34 aren't what im looking for... and the older men say 35 to 45 I seem to find more compatible?.. Can anyone give me some advice as to why I might be thinking of dating older men... and tell me... are they better?... lol... maybe I haven't found Mr. Right yet... or just looking in the wrong places.. Who knows... advice would be greatly appreciated...

Children in marriage

Seagull_J_L — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 22:47:44 +0100

I wonder how many people here, who would like to have children some day, feel like they would only want to have them inside of marriage?
I fully respect everyone's decisions and I can understand why some people feel that they don't need to sign a paper (enter in marriage) because they know they can have a loving relationship and create a successful family without that paper too, but I was just raised in the way that children should be born in a loving marriage and not outside of it.
I'm very old fashioned in that way, yes.
I have always felt that if I ever have children I will either have them inside of a marriage formed out of true love or I will not have them at all.